Hi Folks,
I love that some of you are really getting into the blogging. Some of my favorites have included seeing what crawled up Amy's shorts in Kenya, the poetic writings of Graham in India (check May 20th), Hani's reckoning with international diplomacy, Joëlle's funky posts in the Philippines, Juan Z making the ladies squeal in Costa Rica, fotos of beautiful Madrid from Madalina, the great pic of Marcel on Natali's blog, Sandra's birthday celebration, Sarah G's coining of a new term, the incredible blues of Russia from Sofiya, and Sunthar for the best use of gratuitous expletives.
Most of you are a good month into your internship and are likely well on your way to adapting. What I am interested in this week is how you have adapted. What have you changed in yourself to become more effective in your host culture? Often these changes are quite subtle and may require some introspection. Start with the easy stuff. How do you greet people (kiss on the cheek, more formal with names)? How do you eat your food (chopsticks, fingers)? Do you barter when you want to buy something or just pay the posted price like Canada? Have you forsaken your jeans and flipflops for the smartly professional look?
Then move into the less tangibles and think about why you have had to change and how effective that change is. For example, have you changed the way that you communicate? Perhaps you don't look people directly in the eye. Do you moderate the language that you use to sound less opinionated or definitive? Do you speak softer or louder?
Then dig a little deeper. Have you had to change your behaviour based on gender roles and rules applied to you by your host culture? How does that feel? For women, it can be a challenge because you can't go out after dark without an escort, you feel your opinion isn't taken as seriously as your male counterpart, you get given the up and down rather intently. For the men, it is can be challenging as well seeing creepy guys leer at your female counterparts. What do you do about that?
These are just some suggestions of things to examine. You will of course have your own good answers. I look forward to reading them and to you giving each other advice, or at least condolences and understanding.
Dig deep! No low hanging fruit. Happy blogging.